Question
My diabetic dog died. Did I do something wrong?
Sunny, owner notes“I wish my dog lived as long as I do.”Updated
I'm an owner, not a vet. This is not veterinary advice, so check anything medical with your own vet.
Short answer
I'm so sorry your dog has died. Going over the last meal, the last injection or the last decision again and again is very common when you're grieving, but it rarely tells you what happened. If you want answers, ask your vet to go through the records with you. You deserve a clear explanation and support, and pet-loss support can help with the guilt as well as the sadness.
What to know at home
The questions may keep coming back even after a vet has explained what happened. You can ask the clinic to write it down for you: what they know, what they're not sure about, and whether anything more can be found out.
What to write down
- Questions you want answered, whenever you are ready
- Records or messages you want the vet to review
- A person who can sit with you through the conversation
What to ask next
A pet-loss support service is there for you whenever you want it. You don't have to decide anything now, whether that's another dog, clearing away his things or how soon you should feel better.
Sources
- Am I doing the right thing for my dog?Doubts about whether you did right
- Does anyone else have a diabetic dog I can talk to?Talking with other owners
- Did my vet do the right thing?Asking your vet to go over the records
- Why did my dog get diabetes? Did I cause it?Why owners rarely cause diabetes
Every outside source I used is listed on the Sources page.
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